Servant Leadership - Ken Blanchard

26 Mei 2020, lebih tepatnya, kemarin. Aku mengerjakan tugas mata kuliah leadership, review tentang servant leadership. Sebenernya udah overdue, gara-gara MMP kemarin di take down alias ikut libur hari raya wkwk. Awalnya sih ogah2 an ya, but setelah membaca materi apa itu servant leadership, aku baru sadar, ini keren banget sih wkwk. So, I will write down some highlights of my notes.

Serve first, Lead second

At the first, Ken Blanchard said, the world needs a new leadership role model, who are servant leaders. Leadership is an influencer process because we are all influencing each other all the time. So everybody is a leader in their part of life. He said, effective leaders are just good human beings, they care about people. 

Clear goals are one of three important things that must be owned by a leader. Because it will help people around you knowing exactly what they need to accomplish and you can do more unbias things to gain your target. The second thing is, as a leader, we need to know what our team feels after they did their job, praise them, and acknowledge all the things that they have done. Listen more than talk, if there is someone who has done the wrong things, the leader will not give some punishment, either he asks for something that he can do to help get back on the track. And we can say it called one-minute redirect, so as a leader and team, we trying to connect what the things that not good as we thought it would be. And as a leader, you are not there to punish him. 

A good manager is who have a tight schedule and have intentional in their behavior. There is a difference between success and significance. Success means that you have to count how much money we already make, the recognition that we get from our effort and we always want more and more of them. It’s different from significant, we are not only talking about money but more of it, generosity. The opposite of recognition is service and the opposite of power and status is a loving relationship. Ken said, with all the things that we have done in our lives, when we are gone, the only thing that we can take with us is only our own soul, that’s where we are keeping our beloved and who loved you.

Tipe model kepemimpinan seperti ini menurutku cukup relevan untuk dipraktekkan pada era saat ini. Tentunya dengan pertimbangan rentang koordinasi. Semua orang semakin sadar kelebihan dan kekurangan yang ada pada diri mereka, dan kita saling membutuhkan. Status dan jabatan adalah penamaan dalam arti sempit, pemaknaannya dapat lebih dalam. Tapi kembali lagi, setiap leader punya visi misi masing-masing kemana arah gerak sebuah tim. Then, it's up to you, which leadership models that suit to you?


If I Left the World X Sad Machine (Gryffin X Porter Robinson)


35:43

See a million faces
Sliding down below
Awful lot of strangers
Only one I'm lookin' for
It's lonely in this cabin
God, I wanna know
Are you with somebody else
Who'd never let you go?
I want another life in
A brand new galaxy where
There ain't no sense of time
And there ain't no gravity
If I left the world
Would anybody miss me while
I look down on this city thinkin'
"Should have loved you more?"
And maybe you'd be with me, darling
If I hadn't gone and left the world
 
For something we don't belong to while it just  kinda like an obsession
Let's make peace for each other. 


Dan Gryffin

windy day.
I opened my window since 5 am
and right now while I was doing my task, I'm listening to this

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=14xe9lVx-28

Gryffin is one of my favorite American singer, DJ, and music producer.
Well just kinda want to share an unimportant information

I love his music since in high school period
I'm pretty sure that "whole heart" is the first song that I knew
(and I realized this song become the last song played by them at this concert! what a nostalgic)
then I love his new song, again, again, and again, I'm so captivated with the lyrics.

Sometimes, I just think why people I mean.. they savor loneliness, sadness, happiness, connected with the lyrics, all we experience the same things in this life huh?

and all of his songs are so goooddd damn!
I hope I could ever go to his concert once haha







replacement for something we cannot replace at all.

"Imagine sitting out there, alone, tiny droplets of rain, cool misty air, pine forest and your hut, just you, all alone, by yourself. As you walk you see the forest and its beauty as it sits there, and you go back in your hut staring outside as you see droplets of rain slipping down your window as you stare, wondering what is beyond this forest, wondering"

"The human needs are so basic: food, nature, and peace and we'll all be happy. But no, we humans are greedy, we want more thus trees are cleared to make way for skyscrapers and industrial buildings, for the better right we thought? So why do we feel so good visiting nature scenic places or even just by listening to nature-inspired music that triggers our minds to think of the wild? The question is does urban life really makes us civilized humans or is it the other way round?"



[Piano Music & Rain Sounds] My Favorite!

well, I just found my favorite piano with a raining sound on the background.
Somehow, it just makes me feel comfortable while I'm doing my task or drawing.

here you can listen to My Favorite Piano Instrumental

this melody makes me imagine my own world without any distraction from another human being. Just me and my imagination, creating my own happiness and hoping that someday it will become true. I love to draw, anything especially about the things that I always dreamed about.

I want to write a lot, but I have to go now, there is a lot of tasks anyway.
wherever you are, on any other side of the earth, remember that you have a reason to live, to love and to be happy. You're precious. And you deserve to be loved.


-antara pagi dan kau

(bagi insan lain pun
hal ini tiada pentingnya)

aku ingin
kau selalu ada disini
tuk temani
hari yang terus berganti
karena aku
tak pernah mau tuk sendiri
raga dan jiwaku nyaman bersamamu

-antara pagi dan kau


Prince Husein - Fireflies



Hasil gambar untuk fireflies prince husein

“Can you remember who you were,
 before the world told you who you should be?”

― Charles Bukowski
.
.

nggak tau lagi,
lagu-lagunya prince husein pada enak2 semua nih :'(
Satu lagu tebarunya judulnya Fireflies
yang sekarang lagi ku replay berkali-kali
sedapet itu sama liriknya.

dan pada bagian "I don't mind"
ga bisa ngomong sih,
kayak mau nangis aja wkwk.
.

go on listen : Pince Husein - Fireflies
.
.
You ask me how to heal
But you refuse to feel all the pain
And all that's real
Every doubt and every tear

I know you were raised by insecurities
You never used to feel enough in your purity
Do you remember the way you are?
Before the world told you who to be
'Cause when I see you, I see me
I know the pain of not being free

I know you were raised by insecurities
You never used to feel enough in your purity
Do you remember the way you are?
Before the world told you who to be
'Cause when I see you, I see me
I know the pain of not being free

You don't have to be perfect
There's to much pain it ain't worth it
Be your own home, where you feel safe
Hold on to me while you're at it

Do you remember the way you are?
Before the world told you who to be
'Cause when I see you, I see me

I don't mind

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